I will often ask him to “Dom” me when I am feeling out of control or feel a need to be close to him. It may not be the right word choice for some, but it works here for us. I know he is my leader or HOH, but when he doms me it feels different. It’s almost a more intimate time for us. I love to say he is dominating me, but in our day to day relationship that is not how it works. Or at least that is not how I describe it.
Is anyone besides me completely confused here? I am, well maybe. I feel like doming me is more of a feeling I get when he is close and I desire him to tell me exactly what to do and how to do it. When he is in leader mode it’s all household duties, kid related activities and more businesslike as we manage our household and raise our children. So maybe I’m not so confused as much as unsure if we are using the correct words here. Not that it matters, except it does in my own mind. I’m pretty sure Hoss does not think it is important at all. It’s just titles after all, in a way anyways.
Anyway, just me, being curious.