Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Hello!



Hello, to all who view this blog,
I am both powerfully nervous and extremely ecstatic to be joining all of you courageous writers here in blogland.  I have thoroughly relished reading your posts and comments over the past months.  Several have brought tears to my eyes and laughter to my lips as I have read and reread your trials, observations, stories, and giggles.  First off I want to thank those who have encouraged me greatly these past months as my man and I have been attempting to find how dd/ttwd will work for us.  Their words and responses to my countless emails have been amazing and each one genuinely appreciated more than they will ever truly know. Several times a response to an email would help me dig myself out of a hole I was getting myself into with my man, by gently reminding me of the reasons we had chosen this new way.  Other times I was already in over my head and had to deal with the inevitable consequences, but their words would help to calm and reassure me that this too was apart of the process.  Thank you all again.


So, a bit about us as I'm certain that's why you all found your way here in the first place.  My man and I have been married close to 15 years and yes, we have children.  I learned about this similar to most of you by simply googling, "spanking" which lead to "domestic discipline".  I found myself fascinated with the thought of this lifestyle as it seemed an answer to my prayers.  I deeply desired my man's leadership and needed his direction and support.  My man and I are still in the beginning stages, taking things slowly, day by day, but we are growing closer and for that I am grateful.  


Now, I invite you all to come along and see how things work here.  I still have many unanswered questions and lots of genuinely good laughs to share, so bear with me as I stick my little toe in and see what becomes of this little blog.   As I said, we are rather new, we will most likely falter here and there as my man and I make our way forward in what we consider a sweeter approach to life. 


Baker and My Man

29 comments:

  1. Baker,
    Welcome to blogland. You will find that this is a very welcoming place. We lookforward to hearing about you and your man as you make your way.
    Meredith

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    1. Dear Meredith,
      Thank you for your sweet words and all of your support. Your words are always appreciated!
      --Baker

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  2. Hey Baker...Happy to see you bit the bullet! Welcome to blogland! Just in time for LOL days! :)

    I think I owe you an email but can't find your last one. Some health issues going on here and am totally behind on everything! If you still have questions, please feel free to send them and I'll try to be better in answering them.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Cat,
      Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm sorry you are having health issues, that's not fun! I know you are busy, but appreciate you coming by to support me!
      Baker

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  3. Welcome! I look forward to reading about you and your man!

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    1. Minelle,
      Thank you for kind welcome and I appreciate you stopping by!
      --Baker

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  4. It's great that you've decided to blog and share your 'sweeter approach to life'. I love the fresh look of your blog and look forward to reading future posts. It's so nice to hear that you're already enjoying the closeness that quickly grows from ttwd. It truly is sweeter.
    Welcome Baker.

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    1. Awww, Laurel,
      Such sweet words! Thank you for coming by to visit!
      Baker

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  5. Welcome to our neck of the woods. I think you will find great support from the ladies here. I look forward to learning a bit more about you and your man.

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    1. Annabelle,
      Thank you for letting me join your neck of the woods and the support is already quite amazing! I look forward to learning more about everyone as well.
      --Baker

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  6. Hello Baker, welcome to Blogland! You will find it a place full of friendly and supportive people. Looking forward to hearing more about you.
    Rosie xx

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    1. Hi, Rosie,
      Thank you for your kind welcome! I am already finding everyone quite friendly, and I'm feeling a little less scared to read everyone's comments than I was yesterday. Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment!
      --Baker

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  7. Welcome to blogland Baker, I love your layout and look forward to hearing more about you and your man.

    This is such a wonderful community and I'm sure you will find lots of support and encouragement.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi, Roz,
      Thank you so much for your lovely words about the layout. The support and encouragement have been very sweet. Thank you for stopping in for a visit.
      --Baker

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  8. Baker, you couldn't be more welcome. How lovely your blog is with all the fresh green. Just beautiful.

    It is wonderful that you and your man are making your way slowly with ttwd. I think you will find that the writing helps you grow into this lifestyle and the support and caring of this group is very special.

    Besides you got your start with some wonderful mentors, you lucky girl.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. Ella,
      Thank you! I do love varying shades of green. Thank you for your words of encouragement. I have been blessed to have such amazingly patient and encouraging mentors! Thank you again for coming by.
      --Baker

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  9. Hi Baxter, hello and a warm welcome to you. You will find this community, wonderful, helpful and supportive. I shall looking forward to learning more about you and your man.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

    PS - love the layout you have chosen for you blogx

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    1. Thanks, Ronnie,
      I am already finding that everyone is very supportive. Thanks for your compliment on the layout. I love the template too! I appreciate you taking the time to stop by and visit.

      --Baker

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  10. Hi Baker, :) Welcome! It is a big deal to get that first post up there. I remember it well! Good for you! I too love your fresh, green look. Lovely!

    Sounds like you had some great encouragement, and help, from some pretty wonderful people! I think that you will find a community full of the same- supportive, loving, ready to listen, offer some advice if you want it, and right there to lift you up during tough times. It is one of my very favourite places to be! I am betting that you will find it the same.

    I look forward to reading here, and following along, as you and your man move forward. I'm glad that Ronnie got the word, and will be adding you to her great list. It is noted by many bloggers & readers, and word will get out that you are here. :) I will add you to my little list of blogs that I enjoy, as well. Glad that you are here! Congratulations on your first blog post! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Katie,
      Thank you so much for stopping by and offering such kind words! Yes, I have been very blessed indeed by the lovely ladies who have encouraged me these last few months. I believe I have driven them a bit crazy with my plethora of emails, but I have learned valuable information of which I am truly grateful. I love the green too! I actually chickened out and my man had to press the publish button. He thought hiding under the blankets was rather childish of me. It just took me sometime to get my head around things. Doing much better this morning. Thank you for coming by and being so sweet and encouraging.

      --Baker

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  11. Welcome! I don't blog, but I enjoy reading blogs of those who do and are in this lifestyle. I look forward to reading what you have to say, and wish you and your man nothing but the best as you both navigate ttwd/dd!:)

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    1. Hi, Megan,
      That is very sweet of you to leave a comment. Thank you for your well wishes. I really appreciate you stopping by and hope you enjoy the journey.
      -Baker

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  12. Hi Baker, always nice to meet new bloggers, welcome to Blogland,
    love Jan, xx

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    2. Hi, Jan,
      Thank you so much for stopping by for a nice hello. I was trying to finish the other comment and this darn laptop hit published before I was done. I kid you not, my laptop has a mind of it's own. Thank you so much for stopping by.

      --Baker

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  13. Welcome Baker!!! I am a longtime lurker, but have friends in the community of bloggers. Thank you for sharing your journey.

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    1. Hi there!
      Happy you were able to stop by and comment! I do appreicate you de-lurking to leave a quick comment. That is something I am just learning how to do. Thanks again for stopping in.
      --Baker

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  14. Hello Baker,
    Welcome to the community. It is always nice to meet new friends here. Welcome! I wish you the best with your journey as you and your man find your way together... :-) Hugs

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    1. Hi, Terpischore,
      Glad you were able to stop by and say, "Hi". I appreciate the welcome and well wishes.
      --Baker

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