There are so many things I would like to know about other taken in hand wives. Believe it or not, at this time, most of the things I talk about with friends that blog are not about DD even though that's how our friendships began.
I have learned the answers to some of these thoughts from some of their blogs or maybe at some point in conversation, but I'd almost like to take a poll and see what they have to say now as many have been blogging for a long time....But it's not just bloggers who make me ponder, but my readers as well. I mean these question pertain to all of us living or interested in this lifestyle. The thoughts below are random in their listing, just pick one or two and share your thoughts. Let's get talking people!
How come we all enjoy spanking? Was it a life long desire or something you stumbled upon? Did your spouse bring it to you? How or why does this become such an overwhelming need within us?
Why is it that some of us fight the need to cry? I know for years I did. Since I was sick I can cry at the drop of the hat. But for years I would not cry. I wanted to or said I did, but when push came to shove I mentally fought back. Why is that? Does anyone have any theories?
Does anyone have any ways to keep your mouth from speaking crazy random things that keep you out of trouble? Like how do you keep yourself from saying things that make it worse? There are times I just cannot help myself and have to get the last word or speak over my man without thinking? Do I truly lack that much impulse control? Am I that ignorant? I choose not to believe either of those, yet there are days I just shake my head at myself and wonder when I will choose not to poke the bear.
Why do we enjoy that after spanking feeling? That tenderness that may last for a few hours or a day or two after a well spanked bottom? What is it about that feeling that makes me feel so loved and cherished? Why will we sacrifice our butts and upper thighs for that feeling? I often really wonder about that because in the moment of a well deserved spanking, I truly just have no idea how I got into this lifestyle in the first place.
Lastly, why do certain implements do it for some, but not for others? Why do I loathe Loopy, but can tolerate Bertha? Why does leather make most of us fear and tremble and also make us puddle at the same time. There is just so much that we can take with one implement, but could take another all day long. Is it physiological or physical or mental or spiritual? I wonder what the thoughts or emotions are behind it all? And why do their hands just seem so hard and callous one minute and so soft and gentle the next?
So, below, feel free to answer. I know some of you are not bloggers, but you are into DD and I just really am curious how you would answer these questions. Feel free to let me know in the comments below or if you'd prefer an email. Help answer my questions and ease my thoughts that I am not alone in my wondering.