Monday, January 31, 2022

50

 

Fifty is a bad number.  Fifty is not fun.  Fifty is unfair.   I do not like fifty.  It seems, well, dramatic.  Or maybe it makes me feel dramatic.  It just seems like a big number   with lots of implications.

No, I am not turning nifty fifty.  Neither is Hoss.  So what does fifty have to do with this post?  Ugh, I know most of you have figured it out by now.

I had fifty coming and Hoss was not going to let me out of it.  We had been sick so this fifty was hanging over my head for several days.  I had given him a few dirty looks, some snide remarks and I'm pretty sure I rolled my eyes when I should have been listening to whatever he was saying.  In other words, my attitude was not what it should have been and he warned me where I was headed.  He felt those responses needed fixing especially when he had given me chances to fix it.  Anyone else know where this is heading?  

He waited until I came to him and let him know I felt well enough to accept my swats.  They were not soft swats, not overly hard.  All were deserved.  I was emotional and tired and yes, I had tears in my eyes.   It hurt even though he gave them in ten swat increments.  


Bertha spoke loud and clear.  Do NOT have an attitude with Hoss.  I got the message.  And now I feel better.  

Hugs and being held.  Sweet reassurance.

No more waiting for fifty.

Just relaxed.  Feeling loved.

Now, how was your weekend?

--Baker

7 comments:

  1. Hi Baker, ugh, there is nothing worse than having to wait for a spanking. Glad it is now over and especially love the hugs and reassurance afterwards.

    Not the best weekend for me. Working overtime from home Saturday which wasn't fun plus having issues with the neighbours and noise lately which is driving me crazy. It's during the day and early evening though so not much you can do.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz, I agree it is not fun to wait, at all. I enjoy the afterwards though.
      Your weekend sounds a bit rough, sorry to hear that.
      --Baker

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  2. mmmmmmmm 50 good ones eh??? (if I could sing ...) Anticipationnnnnnn

    Am very glad you are relaxed again... feeling loved again....

    As for our weekend?? have I told you we're moving?? (grinning)

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    1. Thanks, Morningstar,
      Anticipation is so true. I am thankful that he rarely makes me wait like that. Your weekend must have been awfully busy! Moving, no fun at all!
      --Baker

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  3. Jack, I published your comment and it's not here anymore. I do not know what I did wrong. It shows me on everything that it was published.
    I'm so thankful you are in a relationship that works for you and your wife understands what you need. I'm always happy to hear that people are living in a way that makes them feel loved and taken care of. Kudos for achieving that.
    --Baker

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  4. Ahhh, 50. Well I know you feel better now!

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